Right lads, bit soppy this one! not been on here for a while but got a bit of a issue some of the playboys on the forum might be able to help with. Split up with my missus of 9 year about a month ago but met a girl straight away, don't know if it's a mad rebound thing or what but really like her, anyway it went really fast and was literally around her flat every night for about 3 weeks n proper hit it off, feels like I've known her for ages n get on dead well, she's only 21 n I'm 28 but she been in a relationship for so long with an older bird I feel like I'm old before my time but she makes me feel young again. Problem is it was really full on like constantly texting n seen each other every chance we got but she's a party girl, she went out with her mates and was onit for about 5 days solid,since then she's been a bit off saying she really likes me but wants to stop seen each other cuz she knows it will get too deep, I'm fine with this not in love or owt but before the bender she seemed like she wanted it to get deep, just feels mad to leave it cuz the sex was out of this world and we get on like we've known each other years! Not text for 2 days now but don't know whether just leave it and sacrifice the best sex I ever had by miles or try a different approach to drag it out for a bit longer!?! Any ideas? Might be worth adding she loves attention one of these birds who gets like 1000 like on facebook n constant facebook messages of random lads.
Exact same thing happened me , 8years relationship, my advice is do what u feel is right and what u want , that way your being u , if she don't like it you know it ain't right I was in love with the "rebound" But I went to oz so it didn't work out Met my current misses when I came back All good so far, I'm happy out , I could go into it more but so happy with current misses won't talk about X I get on with em all still even the 8yr relationship X one that dumped me Just be yourself and act how u would, if ur mad into her go for it ,
Plus she's 21 and your 7 years older It'd be fairly embarrassing if you ended up chasing around after her, your supposed to be the level headed mature one I'd leave her to it
I'd fuck it off if I was you mate.... Girls who party don't give a fuck in my eyes tbh. I have a few mates (girls) who will get on it and they'll fuck anyone tbh.... These are good lucking girls too but they aren't relationship types. I'm nearly 21 btw
I'd keep shagging her until I found another bird then move on You've just got out of a 9 year relations mate your head ain't straight if you think you've found the one straight away Get out there and get some
And rereading the op I'd bet my house on her sleeping with at least one other person sometime throughout that five days of partying Can't really think of any other reason she'd go so cold all of a sudden if she was as in to it as you say she was
Party girl out for five days solid without sex? Doesn't happen mate. I reckon it's been gangbangs for at least two of them Coke fuelled days. Bin her.
Cheers lads, don't know if my heads just a bit fucked tbh, weird not having a bird around just to chat to and stuff, plus the sex is really amazing like porn star stuff! Suppose the best thing is to just leave it and let her make a move if she wants to, just hard not to text and ask her to come round sitting in an empty house on my ones haha
Power of sex has landed me with a right few wrong uns over the years....get out and play field mate. In meantime If you want a fk at party girl this seem your only solution.