I got divorced in 2010.
I was competing every year, and looking after my two boys whilst my wife forged a career over the previous 14 years.
She said my steroid intake, dieting, and training all the time had depleted her love for me.
We decided on a trial separation and I moved out.
This was my first mistake as I was primary carer whilst she went from £12k year, to £88k.
I bounced at the weekend when required, so never asked her for a penny.
My new flat mate suggested bugging our house. I was returning week days to pick the boys up from school, feed them, wash them and getting them ready for bed.
I heard her on the phone to her sister. She'd been shagging her boss for the last 3 years.
I would never had known.
Her face when I played the recording to her was simply Superb.
I'm happy now. Been with my new girl last 6 years. Have another boy aged 4.
Still see my lads frequently (18 and 14 now)
Don't speak to the ex anymore. Don't even see her.
Thank God I took my mates advice just because I thought it was me that was wrong. That guilt could have ended me....