the little things in life that piss you off....

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Ronnie_Malenko, Sep 23, 2013.

  1. Irish Beast

    Irish Beast Moderator

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    I should add the only reason he seems them at all is so that he can claim joint custody and therefore pay less. Disgusting as I have a pal who just wants to see his kid and the mother has went from being half reasonable to stopping access. Pal is paying her £250 a month towards his keep out of decency, nothing formal yet is not being allowed to see his boy so I told him to stop the payments and watch her change her tune.

    With my situation she needs to get the CSA involved again as there was clearly come foul play involved last time. According to onlin e calc she is entitles to £100 from him per week which for 4 kids is still fuck all. They probably eat that for god sake, then there are never ending costs from school. This week was £20 for a bike permie, £18 for a locker, Had to bring in chicken fillets (£5) and we have to pay all of that. Its never ending. I would tell him to shove his £40 up his arse. She did stop him seeing them once weekend a few weeks back as he was meant to lift them from school and just didn't bother and didn't tell anyone, went to pub instead. He claims he cant have them some weekends cos he needs to do overtime to end his poverty and guess were he goes! One clue : Its not work. I feel sorry for groups like Fathers of Justics
     
  2. Ronnie_Malenko

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    What a dead beat dad he is
     
  3. Irish Beast

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    I could go on all day mate, that's only scratching the surface. Ultimately its the children who suffer and the youngest now calls me Daddy as well as him which must be confusing. It makes me feel a bit uncomfortable but she sees considerably more of me than him and I do a lot more for them so to be expected to an extent but still odd. I believe even one of the boys called me it the other day but I didn't hear. My GF wishes they would call me that in front of their actual father as it might make him realise that hes been completely useless in the most important years of their lives. I wouldn't say I do loads for them but apparently its a lot more than their biological father does. As he does practically nothing the bar has been set pretty low.

    On a related but side note does that controversial group " Fathers for justice" still exist? I remember a colleague was a main man in it. They were on the news etc several times but seems to have died off. Fathers generally get shafted when is comes to breakups. My pal is being treated like shit and his soon used as bargaining chips which is disgusting. I'd cut off her money and have something else done about her if it was me. Its sad that a genuine Dads who wants to spend time with his son is at the mercy of the mother. He has done nothing wrong, They just broke up but he was treated like a murdering, raping, unfaithful paedophile. He is willing to go through the courts and spend his last penny but is going to demand a paternity test first which will shock her. He doesn't understand why she has went from amicable to a degree to basically complete shut down, that might explain it. Hes a lovely guy and his son needs him in his life. My pal seen his kid in the supermarket the other day with some random guy who was her new BF. He didn't do anything but said it crushed him. I'm not surprised as she wasn't even there. He might be an ok guy but shes not known him long as hes taking my pals son to the shops alone. Could be a nonce for all we know. Boils my piss thinking about it.
     
  4. RAD

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    Christmas songs

    Years ago when I was at college I had a part time job in a supermarket and at Christmas I would get extra hours but they would play the same fcukin Christmas CDs over and over again then on a night I would be out with my mates and every pub had the same fcukin CDs playing.

    To this day they still do my head in
     
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  5. dirtyvest

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    Fvcking grinch has arrived lol
     
  6. RAD

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    tenor.gif
     
  7. spearman

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    Having a fever
    Fuck me I feel dreadful
     
  8. RAD

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    You got it as well.....picked this up from the new residents they brought it over from the UK.

    Its got me fcukin ill
     
  9. StevieB

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    I hate to say it, but christmas shopping and christmas shoppers. Ppl turn into absolute cnuts. Good will to all men goes out the window while trying to get that gift for little Timmy!
     
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  10. Dirty Harry

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    My daughter, almost full term pregnancy, said the same yesterday, people turn demonic lol.
     
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  11. dirtyvest

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    Never have any issue out shopping, but while my Mrs claims she loves Xmas, she soon starts getting stressed and turns in to a devil herself. Every year I could walk out and not look back, and Friday just gone was no different (but I'm a sucker for punishment and I'm still here lol)
     
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  12. freeline

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    Being told I am seeing the boy too often by his mother
     
  13. RAD

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    So you get shit being a good dad to your son........fcukin unreal that mate
     
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  14. freeline

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    I sat him down and explained what his mother said. Im not having him think I dont want to see him.
     
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