I am on the birth certificate I have continued to pay her money every week
Even after she's stopped me seeing her.
I've made two attempts at the school and my ex has flat refused me access there.even though the school were more than happy to agree to this,I'm currently waiting to see about my legal aid application I'm not sure what some mean by I won't get it as it's based on your wage and outgoings as far as I'm aware correct me if I'm wrong please.
Then we're going straight to court as we tried an initial letter for two days a week to start off and build up from there however she emailed my solicitor 6/7 emails saying I was not getting access and her reasons.
My solicotor has said it's good in a way she sent him emails saying he will get no access to my daughter as it's in black and white.
We then waited to hear from her representative and they sent a letter saying her reasons for not allowing me to see her reasons being I have not bothered since September ect all lies thank fully I can prove.
The police called me today they will be arresting my ex on harrasment and stalking charges in the coming days as she's sent me countles messages trying to get me to snap. For example pictures off our daughter saying look how she happy is she doesn't even ask for you anymore,I'm a useless dad countless abuse.
Even appearing at my work demanding my pay details kicking off.as she thought she was not getting enough money from me..
Despite showing her the proof on CSA calculator.like I said my only real concern is the fact she's took a picture off a needle on top of a bin and said I pit it there..also she has some gear in a box I had while there,she's sent me messages saying do you really want to show people this I'll never see my daughter again... Also saying the judge will laugh at me in court ect..she will get full custody it always goes to the mum...
It put me in a bad place the abuse,I have done 3 domestic abuse questionnaires and had victim support call me a few times.
So I had to get something done the police eventually said I have enough to charge as it became persistent.i have a horrible feeling it wil make her even worse and she will make up more lies..
I just want to see my daughter again I sent from seeing her everyday having her overnight at her mum's while she worked to zero calling police on me anytime I went round.so I had to stop incase I got any harrasment orders put on me which I didn't thankfully.
I want shred custody off my daughter defo as much time as possible I can get.